It’s New Year Resolutions & Gratitude in Shady Pines in time for 2023!

It’s New Year Resolutions & Gratitude in Shady Pines in time for 2023!

Let’s Set Some New Goals and More

Hey look! We’ve got a new year upon us and that means new opportunities for the good folks of Shady Pines Story Town. What do you want to happen in 2023?

 I’m Scoop the Cub Reporter and right now we’re getting all sorts of ideas here in The Shady Pines Gazette news office. They’re all about New Year’s Resolutions.

Most people think these goals are fun to talk about and write down. But how many of us follow them all year long?

I’m hearing from parents who want to know how to guide children to make good resolutions. I don’t know about that. I’m just a teenager. So I’ve turned to parenting experts for their advice.

Here’e what they say: It’s important to be upbeat, make resolutions a fun activity, and try not to force ideas but let kids come up with their own. Here’s how they say you should get started:

Lead by Example

 If you want to make healthy eating a priority this year, give examples like:

* You know how much your dad and I love pizza. This year we’re going to eat less pizza and eat more fruits and vegetables instead.

* We’re going to limit the amount of fast food we eat, and make more meals together.

Be Specific

* Use categories like personal, friendship, helping and school goals.

Ask questions to help you find out what’s most important to to your kids. Some examples:

* Can you think of some things you might do better or differently?

* Do you remember a time when you might have been nicer to someone at school? Or, treated your brother or sister better? Are there ways to share more with your friends?

* How about helping out more around the house?”

Build Upon Success & Add Gratitude

The experts say don’t get discouraged. It can take up to six weeks to create a habit. So try your resolutions for a month and a half and see how things are going. Make adjustments or change things up after that.

And here’s something else you can try. Write thank you notes. Yep, one expert said they wrote to all the people that had helped them this year. It made that person feel good. And it helped the person sending the note to feel gratitude heading into a new year.

In the meantime, have fun celebrating the new year. Maybe together we should all try to make someone else’s life a little bit better whenever we can!

– Scoop Out

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Why Memorial Day is Important

Why Memorial Day is Important

Are you thinking Memorial Day weekend plans may look a bit different this year? With social distancing and the constant threat of Covid 19, the good folks of Shady Pines Story Town are thinking ahead. The 25th of May will be here before you know it. There are a whole of of people getting together to come up with ways to celebrate the holiday in a safe way.

In the meantime, a reader wrote to Zulah Talmadge, Editor at The Shady Pines Gazette newspaper, and asked a very good question. “Do you think kids know the real meaning behind Memorial Day?”

So of course, Zulah thought that was reason enough for this article. This is what she wrote:

MORE THAN FUN IN THE SUN

It’s obvious that kids and adults alike love Memorial Day weekend. Why wouldn’t they with all the traditional activities like parades, barbecues, lawn games, fun in the pool, beach trips and the like? But at the same time, the true meaning of Memorial Day goes beyond all the fun and games. It’s actually a very serious and important holiday. For over 150 years, Memorial Day has been dedicated to paying respect to all the men and women who died while serving in the U.S. military.

HOW IT ALL STARTED

Have you ever wondered how this holiday became part of the U.S. Calendar? It’s always the last Monday in May. Memorial Day actually began as Decoration Day back in 1868, when the graves of Civil War soldiers were decorated with flags and flowers. It was renamed Memorial Day in 1967, and in 1968, the last Monday in May was officially declared a U.S. holiday, turning the day into a celebratory three-day weekend before summer begins.

SEND WARM WISHES OF GRATITUDE

As you know, here in Shady Pines, we try to remind ourselves and our children to be kind and caring. One of the most important lessons any of us can learn is gratitude. So before you fire up the grill, maybe you and the kids send out heartfelt Memorial Day wishes. Here are some examples:

  • For an American citizen, today is the day to proudly remember all the soldiers who gave their lives for the country. Let us bow our heads in their honor. Wishing you Happy Memorial Day.
  • Love of this country, patriotism, is the reason why so many men and women fought for our land. Sending you warm wishes on Memorial Day.
  • Today is the day to remember all the real heroes who serve this country with their military service. We honor them for their contribution in bringing happiness. Happy Memorial Day.

SHARE WITH US

For many of the members of our Shady Pines community who have friends or loved ones serving in the military, this can be a very solemn occasion. Please tell us your story and what wishes you want to send out on this Memorial Day. We’d love to hear from you!

Now I’ve got to find Scoop, the Cub Reporter, so we can report back on the 2020 version of fun-filled festivities being planned for our small Southern town.

Stay tuned!

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The Shady Pines Gratitude Tree

The Shady Pines Gratitude Tree

The holidays jump up on our calendars come at us with increasing speed, and turn up the volume on stress –– so much to do, and so little time. We’re barely beyond Thanksgiving gatherings, and now we’re in the middle of brightly wrapped presents, and holiday travel. Amidst the hubbub, folks in Shady Pines take time to focus on something really important: Gratitude. This is the story of our gratitude tree.

Giant candy canes stand at attention along Main Street, and a big, red bow hangs on the front door of Cup ‘O Joe’s coffee shop. On a quiet Tuesday afternoon, Pete, owner of Pets Galore, drops in for a mocha-flavored cappuccino. One of his favorite clients, Joan MacGilicutty, has a dollop of whipped cream added to her frozen frappé drink.

‘Hi ya, Pete.”

“Well, hi yourself, Joan. How’s that pretty little poodle of yours?”

“Oh, Precious is fine. Thank you. Are you still planning the pet adoption this season?”

The annual Pet Adoption at Pets Galore is always popular. A lot of children ask Santa to bring them puppies for Christmas. And while a pet can be a wonderful addition to a family, an animal companion is also a big responsibility. Pete likes to educate kids early about being kind and caring to their critters.

“Hey, Pete. We’re grateful for our pets, right?”

“Yes.”

“And the kids from the grade school are working on a gratitude tree.”

“Over at the Community Center. Joan, are you thinking about combining the two events?”

“C’mon, Pete. Let’s go!”

The arts and crafts room at the Shady Pines Community Center is a cluttered mess. Volunteers try their best to create order, but holiday decorations litter the big open room, and construction noise fills the air.

Harold Sanders and a couple of his employees at the Nuts ‘N’ Bolts hardware store come clanging and banging through the double doors. They carry a man-made tree that must be at least six feet tall. The triangular-shaped tree of sturdy oak has branches from real, longleaf pine trees nailed on tight. The men haul the tree on its side and try to wedge it through the opening.

“I think it’s going to fit, Harold, branches and all,” says Mack.

“That’s great, Mack. Hey, Hank, do you have the stand?”

“Right here.”

“Good,” Mack says. “Let’s put the tree over there where it’s out of the way.” As he swings the tree around to place it in the stand, one of the branches hits Harold in the head.

“Hey, watch out!” says Harold.

“Whoops! Sorry, Harold!”

“I’ll be okay, Hank. May have knocked a little sense into me.”

All three men chuckle and hoist the tree up onto its stand.

“Does it look straight, Harold?”

“Hank, you’d better ask Mack. I’m still seeing stars.”

“A little more to the left, Hank,” says Mack. “There. That’s good.”

They take a few steps back to admire their creation. Soon the children will arrive to cut out paper pinecones. After writing on them what they’re thankful for in their lives, they will tie them to the tree branches with red ribbons.

Harold and the guys didn’t notice that Joan and Pete are right behind them. Pete clears his throat to get their attention.

“Not bad for amateurs.”

“You know what, Pete? Joan says. “I think it’s even better than last year.”

The three men turn around at the same time.

“Hey, look who’s here,” says Harold.

“It’s Joan and Pete,” Hank says.

“Are you going to help out?” asks Mack.

“We sure are!” Joan and Pete say together.

They all fall toward one another hugging and shaking hands. These friends are bonded by a common goal –– to help kids have the best holiday ever. Many of the children who enjoy the annual event at the Community Center have absent parents, for one reason or another. The circle of love and support that this project represents lifts their spirits during the holiday season.

“Hey, where do you want me to put these?” One of the volunteers helping to decorate carries an armload of ornament boxes. The fragile, colorful balls will decorate the Center’s Christmas tree later on. The trouble is, right now, he can barely see above the top box and shuffles right towards the tree. Before anyone can yell, “Look out,” the man bumps right into the tree. Swaying uncontrollably on its stand, rocking from one side to the other, the tree lurches to the right before toppling to the floor. The boxes fly across the room, crashing to the earth in an almost musical tinkling of breaking ornaments.

Harold and the guys are stunned. Pieces of branches are strewn everywhere and the trunk lands with a crashing thud.

“Wow,” Harold says.

Mack gently whistles through his teeth.

“Sorry, sorry, sorry!” says the volunteer. “I didn’t see –– all the boxes –– I’ll help clean up,” he says, kneeling to the floor.

The group stares at him, the boxes, the tree and shattered glass.

“Guess there’s only one thing to do,” says Harold. “Guys, get your tools. There’s a lot of work to be done, and the kids are due anytime.”

“Hey, Pete,” Joan says. “Why don’t we get the kids to work on their pine cone messages in the other room?”

“That’s a great idea. What are we waiting for?”

As Pete and Joan dash to the next room to set up, Harold, Hank, and Mack get to work. They have to reassemble branches and part of the tree trunk as fast as they can. Soon they hear laughter and giggling coming from the other side of the wall. Joan claps her hands to get the kids’ attention.

“All right, everyone. Listen up. Shhhh. Pete is going to explain what to do.”

“Kids, we all have something that we are grateful for in our lives, right?”

“Yeah!”

“Good. Now Joan and I will help you if you need it. We want you to write down one thing that you are thankful for this year.”

Serious young faces turn their attention to the paper pine cones they’ve just cut out of colorful paper. Joan and Pete circle the room and see that the children have written a variety of answers: friends, family, my dog, my cat, school, my mom, my dad, my bed, my baby sister, macaroni and cheese, church, my house, peanut butter, and grandma and grandpa.

Everyone was quiet and working, until they weren’t. The mood in the room changed the moment a little girl turned to the little boy next to her. He’d written down “my pet snake.”

“That answer is stupid.”

“No, it’s not.”

“Is, too.”

“Is not!”

Joan and Pete jump up and try to separate the two, but not before both children wad up some unused paper and start throwing it.

“Hey, pine cone fight!” someone says, and soon balls of orange and blue and red and yellow fly everywhere. Youngsters duck out of the way, laughing and screeching at the same time.

Anticipating that something like this might happen, Joan wears a whistle tied around her neck by a piece of red ribbon. In one swift, motion, she brings it to her mouth and BLOWS! She picks it up and blows. Everyone stops and covers their ears. Pete’s mouth drops open, shocked at the shrill noise.

“All right. That’s enough,” Joan says. “Listen up. I want each of you to return to your seat. The kids shuffle over to their tables, and the sound of chair legs dragging across the floor fill the awkward silence.

“Pick up your pine cone messages and follow Pete and me into the next room. And, most of all, do it quietly.”

The sound of little, shuffling feet alert Harold and the guys that the kids are heading their way. They hammer the last branch back into place. When the children look up at the tall tree they are amazed. It’s bigger than the one last year.

“That’s ginormous,” one little girl says.

“Huge,” says another.

One of the smaller boys, clutching his pine cone, tugs on Harold’s tool belt. “I want to put mine up high,” he says, and soon the adults are lifting the smallest children up on their shoulders so they can tie their pine cones to the tallest branches. Old and young alike smile and help one another.

The gratitude project is the brainchild of the Community Center Director, Rita Mallena. It was her hope that during the rushing around and the hoopla of the holiday season, people would stop for a moment to appreciate the true gifts of the season. In this moment, with messages of thanks swaying from the branches of the gratitude tree, it seems, once again: Mission Accomplished! 

Please leave a comment and let us know what you’re grateful for this season.

 Big News. Gratitude Rules!

 Big News. Gratitude Rules!

Hi Everyone. It’s me, Scoop the Cub Reporter from The Shady Pines Gazette.

The rule of thumb this time of year is that you have to brace yourself and know things are going to be hectic. The holiday season ushers in an even faster pace to our already busy lives. Somehow the list of things to do, is longer than the number of available hours and days to get it all done. And, maybe it’s because of the chaos, that people get a little bonkers and things are a bit out of whack.

Let me give you an idea of the news I’ve been covering in just the past day or so. First, I get a call from the guys at the volunteer fire department. They say the number of calls coming in, is off the charts. And, some of the so-called emergencies have been stranger than normal. They responded to one hysterical lady’s call that she had a fire out of control. When the fire truck pulled up, with the guys in full gear, they didn’t see anything. They did hear the screaming. Once inside, it turned out the woman had a new gas stove and the flame from one burner was shooting higher than it should. She’s yelling and fanning the flame with a towel. They calmed her down, took away the towel, and figured out the dial got stuck in the HIGH position. She was very grateful to them.

Over at Maggie’s Diner, one of the gals who works the counter, reported to the police that the supply room had been trashed and all sorts of items were missing. The diner’s back door was open when she arrived for her morning shift. When the cops got there, they talked to a number of people. But, upon closer inspection, it turns out Maggie forgot to lock the door when she finished doing her paperwork late, the night before. And the bag of flour that tipped over and spilled onto the floor revealed something else. The thieves had clawed feet! We’re still not sure if the culprits were cat burglars, or raccoons, but they sure weren’t human. Case solved. Again, everyone involved was thankful that the situation was not serious. Whew!

It’s enough to keep this reporter hopping, that’s for sure. Wait, breaking news is just coming in. Over at the Shady Pines Community Center the gratitude project is getting underway. This has become a holiday tradition that the center’s director, Rita Mallena, came up with a couple of years ago.

I’m learning that the kids from the grade school next door are building a gratitude tree. They’re being helped by adult volunteers at the center. The adults build the pine tree out of wood. Together, the kids and the adults, assemble paper cutouts of pine cones. Each person writes what they’re thankful for in their lives on a paper pine cone. The messages dangle from the branches. You want to see for yourself? Let me find my camera and my reporter’s notebook and we’ll head over there. You’ll be able to read the full story HERE 

See ya soon!  -Scoop, the Cub Reporter