Exciting News Straight From the Founder of Shady Pines Story town

Exciting News Straight From the Founder of Shady Pines Story town

And So It Begins

Dear Readers, in honor of Mother's Day I thought you'd like to hear from one of our neighbors who became a mom when she least expected it. Yes I'm talking about Edna Sanders. The day she and Harold adopted those two four-legged rascals her life changed forever. I'll let her tell you.

"Oh, for heaven's sakes," says Edna. "If you’d told me I’d be getting teary eyed over a dog slobbering on my good apron or a cat slung over my shoulder, I would’ve laughed right out loud. But here we are, just before another Mother’s Day, and I can’t help reflecting on the sweetest surprise life ever handed me and my Harold: the day we became fur parents."

"To say that adopting these two critters came as a complete surprise would be the understatement of the year. Or, any year for that matter! I won't get into exactly how it happened because my author friend, Mary Jane McKittrick, talks all about that in her second book, "Boomer and Halley Lost and Found -Learning to Live in a Blended Family." I'll just say it was a life changing experience for all of us."

"One evening, not long ago, I was sitting out on the back porch in my favorite big wooden chair that rocks a bit. I was admiring my garden of flowers that took such care to get to bloom. Boomer was lying on the ground gnawing on his favorite rawhide bone with his head on my feet. Halley was perched on the armrest. And that's when it hit me. I never had children of my own. Life just didn’t work out that way for us. But in that moment, with the late sun painting everything in a warm glow and these two babies looking up at me like I hung the moon, my heart swelled so big I thought it might burst."

I was a mama after all.

"Being a fur mom isn’t always glamorous. There are muddy paw prints on my clean floors, early-morning zoomies that sound like a herd of elephants, and the occasional “gift” of a half-dead lizard from Halley.

But there’s also the way Boomer leans against my leg when I’m feeling blue, like he can sense it. And the way Halley curls into the exact shape of my neck when I’m reading in bed, purring her little heart out.

There’s the laughter when Harold tries to teach Boomer to fetch. Sure as shootin' he ends up chasing the ball himself while Boom sits there grinning like, “You do it, Dad. They healed something in me I didn’t even know was aching."

"This Mother’s Day, I want every woman who’s loved a four-legged child to know this: your love counts. The late-night worry when they’re sick, the silly songs you make up for them, the way your heart lights up when they run to greet you—it’s all real mothering. The kindness, caring and love you show them is real. Fur babies don’t replace anything, but they sure do fill up spaces you never knew were empty."

Adults reading a book

"To my Boomerang and my Halley’s Comet: thank you for choosing us. Not sure who was most lost at the time, but I'm sure glad we found one another. You made my Southern heart a mama’s heart."

"And to every fur mom reading this—whether you’ve got horses, dogs, cats, birds, bunnies, or all the above—happy Mother’s Day. May your treats be plentiful, your lint rollers never run out, and your fur babies always know how deeply they are loved.

With sweet tea and even sweeter love, Edna Sanders, in the small Southern town of Shady Pines."



Shady Pines Pumpkin Patch Adventure for Halloween Week

Shady Pines Pumpkin Patch Adventure for Halloween Week

Get The Scoop from the Pumpkin Patch

Halloween week is a special time in Shady Pines. All around town people are picking out costumes and pickng up pumpkins to decorate.  Along with the explosion of fall colors and cooler weather, it's a good idea to head to the local Pumpkin Patch.

I'm Scoop, the Cub Reporter with The Shady Pines Gazette and I'm headed that way right now. My assignment is to discover why so many folks say this is one of their favorite things to do each year as a family.

One thing I've noticed is that from toddlers to teens like myself, a pumpkin patch is fun for everyone. First of all, you get some exercise and you're outside.

Good To Be Outside

And, most of these working farms are so big you don't have to worry about social distancing. At some point you will have to pay for the pumpkins you're going to take home. That puts you close to the person who checks you out. You might want to bring a mask if you're not vaccinated. Okay, I'm here. I've gotta interview people.

One mom I met told said, "If your kids don’t explore the outdoors very often, this is a great way for them to discover nature. Seeing how pumpkins grow out of the ground and are attached to vines is very educational. It helps them understand that pumpkins don't just show up at the grocery store automatically."

I can already see for myself that this is one place where children can run around and discover things for themselves. That's really important. I know I like to find those unexpected, special, moments. For instance, take a look at this shot I got. Do you see the colors of that butterfly next to the pumpkin? Being out on the farm you can just be amazed at Mother Nature. I think this kind of stuff is really cool!

I met another mom who told me, "From the second we arrived, my children ran off with smiles, but quickly, they realized how much work it was to be in a field of pumpkins. Even running took work since the vines were everywhere, waiting to trip little, toddler-sized running feet."

It turns out that not only is this a great way to spend time with the family, there are also some lessons to be learned. There aren't a whole bunch of people working the farms these days. So a lot of  kids don't realize it takes hard work to be a farmer. One young girl I met was getting a little taste of that. Just trying to push a wheelbarrow with a big 'ole pumpkin was something she hadn't done before. The other thing she said was that she didn't know pumpkins grew from tiny seeds. She also didn't realize that they come in so many shapes, sizes and colors. "It's kinda like people, isn't it?" she asked.

I have to admit, I'd never thought of that before.  It seems there are a lot of things to find in the pumpkin patch. One couple I met said they love coming out here each October. But this year it was especially important to them. "We know so many farms and other small businesses are struggling right now because of the pandemic. It was important to us to come out and support them."

Pumpkin Carving and Fun Recipes

That's reason enought for me to go home with some pumpkins of my own. I don't know about you, but our family usually has a pumpkin carving contest. Last year my dad won. It's time for me to take the title back! The other reason I need to pick up some pumpkins is to inspire my mom. Around Halloween she likes to scare up some pumpkin dishes for us. I'm talking about everything from pumpkin pies to pumpkin pancakes. Here are some recipes for you to try: PUMPKIN RECIPES

There's one more thing I want to mention.

These pumpkin patch visits make for some great family photos. Everywhere I look I'm seeing parents taking all sorts of shots.

Oh, look at the time. I've got to get back to the Gazette office. My editor, Zulah Talmadge, is probably wondering why I've been gone so long.  But this is just so darn much fun. Hope you've enjoyed it!

- Scoop out.

 

Time to Celebrate Memorial Day

Time to Celebrate Memorial Day

Time To Celebrate!

It's Memorial Day weekend! Now that most of the country is opening up, it will be more like business as usual for this 2021 holiday. Even though the pandemic is still a reality, and social distancing is still encouraged, we are slowly getting back to normal. The Shady Pines Gazette news editor, Zulah Talmadge, put out the word a week ago that she wants the people of Shady Pines Story Town to let her know how they plan to celebrate. Now, she's having a hard time answering all the calls coming in!

“Yes, Sara, we’re doing a bunch of different stories about the holiday. What are you and Joe and the kids doing this year? You’re going to the picnic in Stonewall Park? You're excited that it's back on this year. You won't have to wear a mask because you've been vaccinated? Uh-huh. I see. OK. We’ll see you there around 5:30.”

The Picnic Is Back

Zulah writes a few ideas in her reporter’s notebook. The annual Shady Pines Memorial Day Picnic is a big deal. The gathering this year will be larger than last year but folks will still be encouraged to stay in their own groups as much as possible.

To encourage some distancing, parking will be restricted to fewer cars than normal and areas will be roped off to prevent people gathering in large groups. Volunteers will be on hand to help anyone who's confused about the new rules. Shady Pines is a small Southern town with a population of around 6,000 people. So, managing "crowds' is easier here than in some places around the country.

Gathering Story Ideas

There's a whole lot more to this story as well as another story about the importance of this day we honor every year. But to read more you'll need to grab your copy of the June edition of The Shady Pines Gazette. You'll find multiple pages of Stories, Recipes to Go and Features that are perfect to take on your holiday weekend getaway or wherever your plans take you.

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ENJOY!

Shady Pines’ Mannerly Reaction to Capitol Siege

Shady Pines’ Mannerly Reaction to Capitol Siege

After the Capitol riots

What in the world? Right there, live on TV, images from the recent attack in Washington, D.C. show us scenes that are hard to believe. Here we are watching, in real time, as a political rally turns into an angry mob. Suddenly, this swarm of people storm the nation's Capitol building and overwhelm police. It can't be real. Could this be happening in America?

Then, we notice our elected officials are huddled together fearing for their own safety. That is just way too scary. Only now are we realizing how dangerous the situation was!

Like many of you, folks in Shady Pines are still in shock. They write to me and say how sad and angry they are about this awful event. I'm Zulah Talmadge, editor of The Shady Pines Gazette News. Being upset is understandable. But what can we do to cope? And, how should we help children understand how to be good when they see adults behaving so badly?

Then it hit me! We're a Southern Town. And if there's one thing Southerners know, it's manners. Maybe it's time we set about making sure we treat one another better. Let's start with some ideas from Betsy Cribb, a writer for Southern Living magazine.

Back to basics

Ms. Cribb reminds us that from the time Southern children are old enough to talk, they're taught the importance of minding their p’s and q’s, saying “yes ma’am” and “no sir,” and treating others with kindness and respect. And they’re expected to continue minding those manners long after they leave the nest. After all, you’re never too young or too old to be polite. Here, nine etiquette lessons every child should learn this year

How to introduce themselves

You only get to make one first impression, and how you introduce yourself often determines the kind of impression you make. This lesson is essential as it's a three-for-one learning opportunity: Showing children how to properly introduce themselves teaches them first, to share their first and last names with their new acquaintances; second, to look that person directly in the eye when speaking to them; and third, how to give a good handshake (a firm, but gentle squeeze is the name of the game).

How to graciously receive gifts

It's no secret that young children don't have much of a filter, but it's important to teach them to accept gifts—even the ones they don't like—with a "thank you" and a smile. Teach them well, and it'll save you from serious embarrassment when they unwrap birthday socks from dear Aunt Linda…for the third year in the row. Once your children are old enough to write, buy them some stationery and teach them the art of the handwritten thank you note.

How to give people space

While the pandemic has certainly given us a new appreciation for maintaining distance, it’s always prudent to teach children to respect others’ personal space: That means no hovering, no close-talking, and minding boundaries.

How to behave at the dinner table

Whether eating at home, a restaurant, or their grandmother's house, children should know the basics of dining etiquette and table manners. No, they don't need to know the difference between a dinner fork and a salad fork at the tender age of five, but they should know how to politely ask for someone to fill their plates or share the dinner rolls (after all, while we love To Kill a Mockingbird's spunky Scout, asking someone to "pass the damn ham, please" just won't do). Children should also learn to keep their napkins in their laps, their elbows off the table, and their mouths closed while they chew.

How to behave online

With screens becoming ubiquitous in children's lives, it's more important than ever to remind them that manners matter as much online as they do in person. That means only writing, sharing, and posting things that they'd be comfortable with their teacher, preacher, and grandmother seeing.

How to accept compliments

Here's a lesson we adults could stand to learn, too. It's tempting to shrug off a compliment with a self-deprecating joke, a throwaway compliment volleyed in return, or an "oh hush;" but a sincere compliment should always be accepted with a simple, "Thank you. That's so kind of you to say." Children who know how to politely accept compliments grow up to be adults who know how to politely accept compliments.

How to offer compliments

Equally important to teaching children how to accept compliments is teaching kids how to give them. Sincerity should always be the driving force behind compliments, and while praising someone’s hair or dress is nice, it’s the genuine acknowledgement of a person’s best character traits, like thoughtfulness or positivity, that rank the most memorable.

How to be inclusive

Equip your children to make others feel welcome. Teach them the importance of inviting those who are left out to join the playground game and those who are sitting alone to pull up a seat at the lunch table. It's what Southern hospitality is about.

How to show respect to others

Etiquette and good manners are all rooted in the most important lesson children should learn: how to treat people with respect. Everyone deserves to be shown kindness and respect, whether that's through saying "yes sir" and "no ma'am," offering a smile, or holding the door.

Of course, at the end of the day, children will be children, and sometimes, when things go awry, all you can do is show your children—and other parents with misbehaving children—a little grace and a little patience. That's just good manners.

We know that here in Shady Pines Story Town we try our best to live by these examples. No one's perfect. But here's to serving up more kindness and caring this year while celebrating the best in all of us!

-Zulah out.

A New Approach to 2021

A New Approach to 2021

Bye Bye 2020 - Hello 2021

It's time to say good-bye to 2020. I'm Zulah Talmadge, editor of The Shady Pines Gazette. If you're like most of our readers, you can't wait to get this year behind you. Any way you look at it, this has been a roller coaster year!

So, how should we approach 2021? We're still carrying many of the same issues right into January. I've been thinking about this a lot lately and decided we might need a different approach to the new year. We gotta switch things up.

Most of us are used to writing down the same 'ole resolutions we make every year: Lose weight, Get healthy, Travel more - you get the picture. But is that really the best plan this time around? Or, are we now getting used to thinking and acting differently in our new world order?

Embrace Change

In 2020 the pandemic forced us to make changes. An out of control virus has a way of making us alter our lifestyle whether we want to or not. Otherwise, we are at risk of getting really sick, or worse.

Here's what I'm thinking. The beauty of resolutions is they are about embracing change. How 'bout we find a way to do that in a positive, even fun way? In fact, instead of "resolutions," maybe we should think of setting, "goals." I talked to some experts and they suggest setting reasonable goals that you can actually achieve. Then, make an action plan.

For instance, let's say you decide to walk five miles a day if you an/or your family are already active and have a safe place to walk or hike. But, if you're mostly inactive, you could decide to walk for a certain amount of time each day. You might also start a new exercise program at home, like yoga. I've met a whole bunch of people in Shady Pines who've learned all kinds of exercise programs online this year.

Break The Mold

Let's face it. The same old routine is boring. One thing you can say about a new year is that it's a great excuse to change that same routine of yours.

Beside doing something physical, "something new’ can include reading a new book or learning a new hobby. Have you ever wanted to learn to paint? What about tackling a new language?  You can do these things and more by yourself or with others by setting up screen to screen time. Staying connected is a good way to ease the lonliness that a lot of us have been feeling.

If you ask Edna Sanders, she'd tell you that trying out new recipes is a great thing to do. You know she likes to whip up all sorts of concoctions in her kitchen. She tells me in 2021 she's going to do more baking and try to win another blue ribbon at the State Fair. Her chocolate chip cookies took Best In Show a few years back. She wants another trophy. That's her goal!

Agility Training?

Here's another thing. Starting in January, Edna says she wants to enroll her dog, Boomerang, into an agility training class. It's no secret that the Australian Shepherd is a herding expert with a special talent for rounding up people. Edna figures that since he's such an active dog anyway, running through an obstacle course will be good for him. Keeping that mind of his busy is always a challenge, too. There's just one thing. Edna hasn't told Boomer about her idea yet and she has no clue how Halley's Comet will react. Edna is considering whether Boomer and Halley can take the training together.

If you ask me, that may take some convincing. Those two have very different ideas about how to spend their time.

Kindess and Gratitude Always Works

If this year has shown us anything we've found it's all too easy to get stuck in the pit of despair and to focus on everything that’s wrong, instead of what is wonderful and happy. That's why Shady Pines neighbors lean on one another for support.

As a community we're going to make 2021 the year of Kindness and Gratitude. That's our mutual goal. We're going to resolve to do one nice act each day. This doesn’t have to be something big. Giving someone a compliment or saying ‘have a nice day’ are both simple acts of kindness.

Being grateful for even the simple things is also something we plan to celebrate. Before this year, many of us took the gift of good health for granted. Now, Covid 19 has given us a wake up call. Never has it been more important to appreciate being safe and healthy.

Happy New Year Year Everybody!